How to Boost Self-Esteem and Focus on Positivity: Valuing Compliments as Much as We Weigh Criticisms in Business

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Sarah Cordiner|4 March 2025

Imagine if every compliment you received came on a bright, colorful post-it note—how much more uplifted would you feel? Yet, we often focus on the single negative comment instead of celebrating the many positives.

👉 Reflect today: Are you giving the positive feedback in your life the weight it deserves?

Here’s how to shift your mindset and build resilience:

1️⃣ Collect the Compliments
Each time you receive positive feedback—whether it’s “I loved your post” or “Thank you for your help”—imagine placing it in a pile of uplifting notes. Acknowledge it, celebrate it, and let it fuel your confidence.

2️⃣ Don’t Give Power to the Negative
That one-off criticism? It doesn’t deserve the energy you give it. Don’t let it overshadow all the praise you’ve earned.

3️⃣ Create a Wins Reminder
Keep a physical or digital collection of your achievements, compliments, and wins. Look at it when doubt creeps in to remind yourself of your value.

4️⃣ Practice Gratitude for the Good
Start your day by reflecting on a recent positive moment or piece of feedback. Let it guide your energy as you tackle the day ahead.

💡 Pro Tip: A single negative comment doesn’t define your worth. Use it as a lesson or feedback, but don’t let it eclipse the many positives you bring to the world.

🎯 Ready to reframe your mindset and build resilience in life and business? Join Legends Lab and learn the strategies for embracing your brilliance and growing with confidence: www.sarahcordiner.com/legends

Sarah x

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